Amitai Schleier

@schmonz@schmonz.com

Force multiplier.
Outcome improver.
Decision sharer.
Developer, leader, coach.
https://agilein3minut.es podcaster.
Musician.
Bad poet (award-winning).
Joined: Apr 05, 2017 (@octodon.social)
SelfHosted: Mar 30, 2025
Pronouns: he/they
Podcast: ✔ https://agilein3minut.es
Consultancy: ✔ https://latentagility.com
More: ✔ https://schmonz.com
Keyoxide: aspe:keyoxide.org:PAC6KHICU3QSHQZVPJCZFS7KIA
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[?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
@schmonz@schmonz.com

Teammate on most recent team gave me this parting feedback: “I learned a ton, we got lots done, our team dynamics were awesome, and I’ve never felt this kind of team feeling before.”

If your business makes software, I might be good for your business.

https://schmonz.com/snac/schmonz/p/1750949585.435936

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[?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
@schmonz@schmonz.com

If you don’t know how to care for people and don’t care to learn, by definition — no matter how convincingly you write, speak, and code — you are not an expert. And when you take a power position and try to enact XP among humans, we can see you’re a charlatan.

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    [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
    @schmonz@schmonz.com

    2018 Mac mini was already being weird. Then macOS Tahoe dropped support. Usually I'd want NetBSD. But the only option was Linux, and it's pretty darn okay.

    Here's my setup: https://schmonz.com/2025/11/12/small-macs/

    (Writing... muscles... loosening.)


      [?]Nathan Arthur (OLD ACCOUNT) [He/him] » 🌐
      @narthur@mastodon.social

      I blogged about the system we have used for years to teach our about saving : rainskit.com/blog/kids_money/

      I've been very happy with it, and maybe this system will be useful for you, too!

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        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
        @schmonz@schmonz.com

        @sakhavi@aoir.social @schmonz an asteroid that beggars belief is a prepasteroid

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          [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
          @schmonz@schmonz.com

          @sakhavi@aoir.social @schmonz An asteroid that’s really top notch is a fantasteroid

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            [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
            @schmonz@schmonz.com

            @sakhavi@aoir.social an asteroid that’s unusually delicious is a gasteroid

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              [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
              @schmonz@schmonz.com

              Running via qmail-run from ? Cool. Add signing like so, then publish a TXT record with your default policy. Done!

              # mkdir -p control/domainkeys/dom.ain

              Alt...# mkdir -p control/domainkeys/dom.ain

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                [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                @schmonz@schmonz.com

                Another from trick:

                To enable , simply uncomment "greylisting-spp-wrapper" in control/smtpplugins. That’s it.

                (Add any exempt recipient addresses to control/greylist/exemptrcpts, or entire recipient domains to control/greylist/exemptrcpthosts.)

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                  [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                  @schmonz@schmonz.com

                  Another neat trick with from :

                  The default SMTP configuration rejects nonexistent recipients.

                  (qmail famously accepts all recipients for its domains even when those recipients don't exist, and then has to queue totally avoidable bounce messages. But you won't.)

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                    [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                    @schmonz@schmonz.com

                    For our next trick with from :

                    Want to SMTP-reject SPF failures when the source domain specifies explicit-fail?

                    1. Add SPP_SPF_RESULT_FAIL="E550 spf_smtp_msg" to
                    control/tcprules/smtp
                    2. Run "/etc/rc.d/qmailsmtpd cdb"
                    3. There is no 3rd thing, is that clear?

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                      [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                      @schmonz@schmonz.com

                      #qmail lacks #TLS. #notqmail doesn't include it either (yet!). But if you install from #pkgsrc…

                      \# chown qmaild:nofiles control/servercert.pem
                      \# chmod 640 control/servercert.pem
                      \# ln -s control/servercert.pem control/clientcert.pem
                      \# update_tmprsadh
                      \# /etc/rc.d/qmail restart

                      🔐

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                        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                        @schmonz@schmonz.com

                        with via :

                        echo srs.dom.ain > control/srs_domain
                        echo "$SECRET" > control/srs_secrets
                        echo srs.dom.ain >> control/rcpthosts
                        echo srs.dom.ain:srs >> control/virtualdomains
                        echo "| srsfilter" > alias/.qmail-srs-default

                        + MX for srs.dom.ain

                          [?]j-r conlin, in the shadows [he / him / idiot] » 🌐
                          @jrconlin@mindof.jrconlin.com

                          If there is one thing I could pass along to folk:

                          Your career will outlive every bad decision that someone in upper management will make. Your role is to learn what you can, not just the task or tech, but what to watch out for next time. Help the folk who will get caught up in the next bad decision, because they will help when you get hit.

                          And if you are in the position to make bad decisions, have a failure plan that protects your team. It’s easy to get someone to follow you once.

                          Getting them to follow you the second time makes you a leader.

                          [?]Bitslingers-R-Us » 🌐
                          @AnachronistJohn@zia.io

                          #NetBSD #pkgsrc 2025Q3 is here!

                          Here are the final pkgsrc-2025Q2 package counts:

                          9.0: earmv4 4230 (still working on gcc 13)
                          9.0: m68k 3418 (+46)

                          10.0: aarch64eb 24677 (finished)
                          10.0: alpha 18926 (+564 - finished)
                          10.0: earmv4 12678 (+573)
                          10.0: m68k 9929 (+127)
                          10.0: sh3el 10669 (+3)
                          10.0: sparc64 15637 (+53)
                          10.0: vax 9298 (+54)

                          current: riscv64 11615 (+672)

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                            [?]Parade du Grotesque 💀 » 🌐
                            @ParadeGrotesque@mastodon.sdf.org

                            [?]benz » 🌐
                            @bentsukun@mastodon.sdf.org

                            Today I tagged 2025Q3. Announcement forthcoming.

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                              [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                              @schmonz@schmonz.com

                              Most practical experts don’t write a book. Distinct tasks, incentives, skills.

                              For the same reasons, some published authors are better at describing than at enacting.

                              Maybe an author really knows, in context, under stress, how to do the thing. Maybe not.


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                                [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
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                                [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                @ska@treehouse.systems ah of course thank you

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                                  [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                  @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                  Unfortunately, even if the person following these steps loves (and is widely held to be expert in it), they’re no less destructive. https://schmonz.com/snac/schmonz/p/1757895379.682120

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                                    [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                    @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                    @ska@treehouse.systems @schmonz I can kinda see the gestalt-similarity with the parasol. But probably also I’m missing a cultural reference (I often am). EXPN?

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                                      [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                      @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                      Hate and want others to hate it?

                                      1. Become Director of Engineering

                                      2. Tell org and stakeholders that XP will fix longstanding problems

                                      3. Regularly interfere with devs’ learning

                                      4. Design projects to delay ROI

                                      5. Find scapegoats

                                      Maybe they’ll blame .

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                                        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                        @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                        Dahlia

                                        Alt...Dahlia

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                                        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
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                                        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                        @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                        If the only code you’re ever satisfied with is your own, you’re not qualified for . Especially if you’re sure you are.

                                        If the only bits of you’ve mastered are the technical ones, you’re not an XP expert. Especially if you’re sure you are.

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                                          [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                          @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                          @thirstybear@agilodon.social maybe if I reply (rather than quote) your client can show the reference properly?

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                                            [?]Milan Todorov » 🌐
                                            @mlntdrv@sw-development-is.social

                                            @schmonz I am almost never satisfied with neither "my", nor "others'" code. That's why I insist on the code to be maintained relentlessly (TDD, refactoring and CI above all) and that's what I expect from others. Because currently most of the others act as if the code they write is perfect (the write once mentality and the notion that the code can be "done" which it never is).
                                            Lastly, there should be no such thing as my and your code.

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                                              [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                              @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                              @thirstybear@agilodon.social hmmm. Not sure just now what that would be. Any links in the last bunch of my Fedi posts are links to other of my Fedi posts. My Fedi instance isn't a Mastodon, maybe that's making things harder to find? If you happen to remember more about what it was, happy to dig more to find it.

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                                                [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                @ska@treehouse.systems While reviewing this for "good toot, send" I thought of you and felt more sure. You've chosen a path that suits you and as a direct result I and others are real happy about being in your orbit of influence. (Not even accounting for your own happiness.) The toot was mainly aimed at folks who, by having chosen paths that ill suit them, cause harm to others.

                                                I appreciate the reminder to consider systemic factors that push people to make such choices. The systemic factors suck. But also people who make any part of others' lives miserable suck.

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                                                  [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                  @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                  If you love and you see a rare opportunity to be hired specifically for that, you might jump at the chance. I do. I did.

                                                  Maybe in your case it’ll be what it sounds like. I hope so. But beware. https://schmonz.com/snac/schmonz/p/1757721641.814818

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                                                    [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                    @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                    If you think coaches have to “know the most” or “be the most technical”, you might not understand coaching, influence, or your own technique-acquisition process.

                                                    If you’re still sure of your understanding, regardless of cost to you and others… clownshoes.

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                                                      [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
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                                                      @narthur@mastodon.social those things scare me, which probably means I need more experience with them, but also I like my fingers how they are

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                                                        [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                        @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                        @ska@treehouse.systems that's exactly how I'd feel about it!

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                                                          [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                          @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                          @ska@treehouse.systems part of some vague negative feedback

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                                                            [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
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                                                            @deborahh@cosocial.ca it did and doubtless still does

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                                                              [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
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                                                              @egerlach@hachyderm.io Perfect, no notes

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                                                                [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                                @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                                If you repeatedly fail to perceive or appreciate what reputable coaches are accomplishing in your org, maybe you’re a great leader who doesn’t know yet what specifically to look for.

                                                                If you do this while claiming to be an expert, that’s clownshoes.

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                                                                  [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                                  @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                                  Fascinating 1:1 feedback: “I hired you largely on the strength of recommendations from our shared network. But maybe that was just a mutual admiration society.”

                                                                  What does this feedback reveal about the giver? Would you expect them to be a skilled leader or manager?

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                                                                  [?]Amitai Schleier [he/they] » 🌐
                                                                  @schmonz@schmonz.com

                                                                  “We learned a ton, we got lots done, our team dynamics were awesome, and I’ve never felt this kind of team feeling before.”

                                                                  Leaders are not obligated to value such feedback.

                                                                  But if they don’t, they oughtn’t claim to value . They value something incompatible.

                                                                    [?]Izumi Tsutsui » 🌐
                                                                    @tsutsuii@social.mikutter.hachune.net

                                                                    X68k 4bpp server on NetBSD/x68k 10.1 on nono 1.5.0 on NetBSD/i386 10.1

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                                                                    If you believe the remit of an expert is to (1) know what’s best and (2) push everyone through doing it, you might not understand expertise.

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